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Meet in person when you feel comfortable about the idea, which takes time. The advantage of coming to know each other via the Internet originates from the fact that you have a possibility of collecting a real wealth of the information gradually. Don't be afraid to or refrain from asking for details due to the awkward feeling of false tactfulness, for the details are really precious, and it is exactly the details that allow you to come to understand and perceive your partner at the other end perfectly well and to make your own conclusions provided you are not completely deprived of some elementary insight and common sense. Don't hurry and don't accelerate the events, for there's really too little sense of meeting in person a complete stranger. It takes at least a couple of months of intense enough communication, with many questions asked and answers received, and topics elaborated upon before both of you start perceiving that you have passed successfully and found yourself well ahead of what Psychologists call the period of "initial discoveries", existing in any relationship.
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